Sunday, July 10, 2011

Escape by Carolyn Jessop and Stolen Innocence by Elissa Wall

A while back many may remember how they rounded up female members of a Polygamist Sect along with their children down in Texas. There were then the news stories about Warren Jeffs who arranged marriages between young girls and old men. I remember watching these things unfold with absolutely NO understanding how a Mother could allow such things. How can a woman share her husband with a smile on her face like it's the most natural thing in the world? It all seemed so absurd, yet very fascinating to me.

I came across two books that really gave a clear picture of the life that many of these women lead. The first-hand account of what the women in both of these books experienced is chilling and unbelievable. If you have ever wondered how the Polygamy thing works don't base your opinion solely on the TV show "Sister Wives" or HBO's "Big Love". Of course, they are entertaining but nothing pulls back the curtains on the true life that most experience like the books Escape by Carolyn Jessop (priced at $11.99) or Stolen Innocence by Elissa Wall (priced at $7.99).

The dramatic first-person account of life inside an ultra-fundamentalist American religious sect, and one woman’s courageous flight to freedom with her eight children.
When she was eighteen years old, Carolyn Jessop was coerced into an arranged marriage with a total stranger: a man thirty-two years her senior. Merril Jessop already had three wives. But arranged plural marriages were an integral part of Carolyn’s heritage: She was born into and raised in the Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints (FLDS), the radical offshoot of the Mormon Church that had settled in small communities along the Arizona-Utah border. Over the next fifteen years, Carolyn had eight children and withstood her husband’s psychological abuse and the watchful eyes of his other wives who were locked in a constant battle for supremacy.
Carolyn’s every move was dictated by her husband’s whims. He decided where she lived and how her children would be treated. He controlled the money she earned as a school teacher. He chose when they had sex; Carolyn could only refuse—at her peril. For in the FLDS, a wife’s compliance with her husband determined how much status both she and her children held in the family. Carolyn was miserable for years and wanted out, but she knew that if she tried to leave and got caught, her children would be taken away from her. No woman in the country had ever escaped from the FLDS and managed to get her children out, too. But in 2003, Carolyn chose freedom over fear and fled her home with her eight children. She had $20 to her name.
Escape exposes a world tantamount to a prison camp, created by religious fanatics who, in the name of God, deprive their followers the right to make choices, force women to be totally subservient to men, and brainwash children in church-run schools. Against this background, Carolyn Jessop’s flight takes on an extraordinary, inspiring power. Not only did she manage a daring escape from a brutal environment, she became the first woman ever granted full custody of her children in a contested suit involving the FLDS. And in 2006, her reports to the Utah attorney general on church abuses formed a crucial part of the case that led to the arrest of their notorious leader, Warren Jeffs.

In September 2007, a packed courtroom in St. George, Utah, sat hushed as Elissa Wall, the star witness against polygamous sect leader Warren Jeffs, gave captivating testimony of how Jeffs forced her to marry her first cousin at age fourteen. This harrowing and vivid account proved to be the most compelling evidence against Jeffs, showing the harsh realities of this closed community and the lengths that Jeffs went to in order to control the women in it. Now, in this courageous memoir, Elissa Wall tells her incredible and inspirational story of her time in the Fundamentalist Church of Latter Day Saints (FLDS), detailing how she emerged from its confines to help bring one of America's most notorious criminals to justice


  1. I read Escape and liked it...these poor women are born into this lifestyle and don't know any better or that they can live a normal life....good read,

  2. I read Stolen Innocence and I'm dying to read Escape. It tears my heart out to know that these women, and so many more, are born into this life and live their lives as property, regarding the outside world as evil.